Gaming a Girl

Gaming a Girl

You may have swagger and rugged good looks, but without intellectual capacity, you’ll most likely fail as a pick-up artist. Women can tell when you’re just looking to score, and even if that is your intent, don’t let her know that. It’s all in the illusion that you present to women. Continue reading »

Where to Pick Up Women

where to pick up women

Picking up women isn’t all that difficult. Sometimes, it’s just about being in the right place at the right time. Certain locations are just more suitable for meeting attractive ladies, such as the workplace, dog park or even yoga class. Why is this? Simple – women are attracted to men that are motivated, friendly and fit. If you’ve been hanging out in all the wrong places, there’s still time to make a change. Consider these ideal locations when trying to find the best places to pick up women. Continue reading »

Latino Women in Panama

latino women

Much like cultural traditions, the quality and type of woman you’ll find in different countries can be vastly diverse. In North America, you’re bound to find yourself amongst some stereotypical “American” women that want everything handed to them while in a country like Australia, you’ll find women that are stronger willed and more likely to go after what they want. Continue reading »

Mystery Method

Mystery method

If you know anything at all about pick-up artistry, you know about the Mystery Method. This step-by-step method discusses how men and women choose partners and uses this information as a means for attraction. ‘The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed’, written by Erik von Markovik (Mystery) and Chris Odom, was a groundbreaking book that illustrated the most effective pick-up artist techniques that have been proven highly successful by Mystery and other master pick-up artists. Continue reading »

The Game Neil Strauss

The Game Neil Strauss

Neil Strauss is well-recognized as the world’s “greatest pickup artist” and is the author of the bestseller in the New York Times “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.” In the book, Strauss stresses the art of seduction and how to successfully meet beautiful women. Continue reading »

Coaching for Divorced Men

coaching divorced man

When you go through a divorce, you’re allowed a span of time to try and get over the heartbreak and sorrow that follows. Beyond that period, though, as Dorothy Fields once sang, you’ve got to “pick yourself up, dust yourself off, start all over again.” Just because your marriage wound up down the drain doesn’t mean you’re jinxed or hexed, and you can go out there and meet women just as you did prior to getting hitched – it just takes a little extra work. Continue reading »

How to Get Into ‘State’

How to Get Into StateAll good professionals need a warm up period. For example, even hot shot tennis players take a good 10 to 15 minutes to hit the ball around before they begin the match.

Pick up is no different. Even the best PUAs need time to get in state. You can’t expect to just go from sitting in a quiet room, to all of a sudden being able to work an entire room. You need time to practice your routines, let the coffee you just drank wake you up, have a shot of Patron, ect.

There are many ways to go about doing this, here are some ‘suggestions’….
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How to Maintain A Relationship

how to maintain a relationship

How to Maintain A Relationship

As Mystery said, The Game never ends. It is your job to always look to keep things fun, exciting, and moving forward. Relationships never stay the same. They are always either moving forward or they are moving backward. Try not to be upset when things move in the negative direction, but rather interpret it as ‘feedback’ that you are going to need to put a little extra work into your relationship.

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When to Buy a Women a Drink

when to buy a women a drink

When to Buy a Women a Drink

There is nothing wrong with buying a woman a drink if she has vested real time in you.
As a matter of fact, it is sometimes even necessary. In the ‘community’, you are often told not to buy drinks for women. Unfortunately this is not put in proper context, and is presented as a general blanket statement.

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How to Lead a Group

how to lead a group

How to Lead a Group

Keep in mind that the purpose for your lines and material is to convey that you are the type of man that is used to experiencing the best that life has to offer.

Lets look closely at one quality that will almost make a woman’s black licorice laced panties drop almost immediately…..being seen as leader!

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Men’s Dating Coach

mens dating coach

The dating world: Sure it’s an intimidating place, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t room for you out there in it. You may look at the opposite sex and see a challenge – and while you’re not 100% incorrect, it isn’t a challenge you should fret over all too much. Before you step out into the dating world, you need to take a much needed deep breath and keep the following tips in mind, lest you want to wind up alone in bed with a few lit candles and a bottle of lotion. Continue reading »

Wing Women

wing women

Wing Women

At the end of the day social proof trumps everything. Showing evidence that you have money, resources, connections, hot girl friends…..these are all great examples of social proof However, one of these trumps all others particularly when you enter into set.

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Direct Game

Direct Game

Direct Game

Direct game is a styled approach where you let your intentions be known upfront. This is contrary to indirect game where you initially come in ‘under the radar’ so that you don’t set off any initial alarms that you are trying to pick her up. Indirect approach often gives you a chance to buy some time with her since you don’t appear to be a potential suitor. There are some obvious benefits to this. James Matador’s coaching does offer insights and techniques on how to incorporate indirect game.
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