If you’ve ever been on the prowl for a gal and found yourself going home with nothing but Rosie Palms, than it may be time for you to turn your sights to the world of the Pickup Artist. With an extensive training session, you could may wind up knee deep in that coveted opposite sex. Continue reading
Real Social Dynamics (RSD) is well-known as one of the largest dating coaching companies in the world, teaching men the secrets to become pickup artists through their extensive boot camps. Their coaches aim to teach men about the “inner game” through a confidence-based system used to meet women. Continue reading
You may have swagger and rugged good looks, but without intellectual capacity, you’ll most likely fail as a pick-up artist. Women can tell when you’re just looking to score, and even if that is your intent, don’t let her know that. It’s all in the illusion that you present to women. Continue reading
Picking up women isn’t all that difficult. Sometimes, it’s just about being in the right place at the right time. Certain locations are just more suitable for meeting attractive ladies, such as the workplace, dog park or even yoga class. Why is this? Simple – women are attracted to men that are motivated, friendly and fit. If you’ve been hanging out in all the wrong places, there’s still time to make a change. Consider these ideal locations when trying to find the best places to pick up women. Continue reading
Much like cultural traditions, the quality and type of woman you’ll find in different countries can be vastly diverse. In North America, you’re bound to find yourself amongst some stereotypical “American” women that want everything handed to them while in a country like Australia, you’ll find women that are stronger willed and more likely to go after what they want. Continue reading
I fully believe in being polite, holding doors open for people, and giving to those less fortunate. As a general rule, I am willing to give my time, resources, and consideration to those who I perceive will appreciate my kind gestures. After awhile you get a pretty good sense of who has a general respect for humanity and who doesn’t. Continue reading
If you know anything at all about pick-up artistry, you know about the Mystery Method. This step-by-step method discusses how men and women choose partners and uses this information as a means for attraction. ‘The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed’, written by Erik von Markovik (Mystery) and Chris Odom, was a groundbreaking book that illustrated the most effective pick-up artist techniques that have been proven highly successful by Mystery and other master pick-up artists. Continue reading
A lot of people ask, “What is the best way to qualify a woman? What are the type of qualifying questions that I should ask?” Continue reading
Neil Strauss is well-recognized as the world’s “greatest pickup artist” and is the author of the bestseller in the New York Times “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.” In the book, Strauss stresses the art of seduction and how to successfully meet beautiful women. Continue reading
So you’ve had your heart broken and are looking to make a full recovery and re-enter the dating world. It’s an intimidating thought at first, having to speak to women. You’ve been so comfortable with the same woman for so long that you may find yourself lost when you try to approach the opposite sex. Continue reading
When you go through a divorce, you’re allowed a span of time to try and get over the heartbreak and sorrow that follows. Beyond that period, though, as Dorothy Fields once sang, you’ve got to “pick yourself up, dust yourself off, start all over again.” Just because your marriage wound up down the drain doesn’t mean you’re jinxed or hexed, and you can go out there and meet women just as you did prior to getting hitched – it just takes a little extra work. Continue reading
All good professionals need a warm up period. For example, even hot shot tennis players take a good 10 to 15 minutes to hit the ball around before they begin the match.
Pick up is no different. Even the best PUAs need time to get in state. You can’t expect to just go from sitting in a quiet room, to all of a sudden being able to work an entire room. You need time to practice your routines, let the coffee you just drank wake you up, have a shot of Patron, ect.
There are many ways to go about doing this, here are some ‘suggestions’….
How to Maintain A Relationship
As Mystery said, The Game never ends. It is your job to always look to keep things fun, exciting, and moving forward. Relationships never stay the same. They are always either moving forward or they are moving backward. Try not to be upset when things move in the negative direction, but rather interpret it as ‘feedback’ that you are going to need to put a little extra work into your relationship.
How to Create Social Proof
Social artistry is knowing how to create a fun social environment out of nowhere…..
It is knowing how to create an environment that people around you….people you do not currently know….’all of a sudden’ feel compelled to be a part of.
When to Buy a Women a Drink
There is nothing wrong with buying a woman a drink if she has vested real time in you.
As a matter of fact, it is sometimes even necessary. In the ‘community’, you are often told not to buy drinks for women. Unfortunately this is not put in proper context, and is presented as a general blanket statement.
How to Lead a Group
Keep in mind that the purpose for your lines and material is to convey that you are the type of man that is used to experiencing the best that life has to offer.
Lets look closely at one quality that will almost make a woman’s black licorice laced panties drop almost immediately…..being seen as leader!
what to say PUA
One of the best ways to have good “inner game” is to be confident in your material. Style himself once said that the secret to getting good at ‘game’ is knowing what to say and when to say it. This includes your openers, transitionary statements, sound bites, etc. Continue reading
The dating world: Sure it’s an intimidating place, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t room for you out there in it. You may look at the opposite sex and see a challenge – and while you’re not 100% incorrect, it isn’t a challenge you should fret over all too much. Before you step out into the dating world, you need to take a much needed deep breath and keep the following tips in mind, lest you want to wind up alone in bed with a few lit candles and a bottle of lotion. Continue reading
At the end of the day social proof trumps everything. Showing evidence that you have money, resources, connections, hot girl friends…..these are all great examples of social proof However, one of these trumps all others particularly when you enter into set.
Direct game is a styled approach where you let your intentions be known upfront. This is contrary to indirect game where you initially come in ‘under the radar’ so that you don’t set off any initial alarms that you are trying to pick her up. Indirect approach often gives you a chance to buy some time with her since you don’t appear to be a potential suitor. There are some obvious benefits to this. James Matador’s coaching does offer insights and techniques on how to incorporate indirect game.